Even though I did good, I will say I'm not ready for him to go any where without me for a while...say ten years would work!! ;)
Until next time,
The Love Birds
Monday, June 29, 2009
Survival
I made it through the night without my husband!! I'm proud of myself. I didn't have to brave the night alone though, my good friend Jocelyn (aka Jo) had read my post and texted me and said she would keep my company! She is such a good friend, she came shortly after Derek left and we talked and watched a girly movie and some tv, ate ice cream and other various junk foods! We ended up both sleeping downstairs in the living room...real sleep over style! I was doing good for not having Derek around but didn't feel like sleeping alone in our bed, and it was really hot in our bedroom so I just crashed on the couch, jo on a air mattress on the floor! It was a lot of fun to hang out with Jo and was a definite distraction from my favorite husband being gone! :)
Even though I did good, I will say I'm not ready for him to go any where without me for a while...say ten years would work!! ;)
Until next time,
Even though I did good, I will say I'm not ready for him to go any where without me for a while...say ten years would work!! ;)
Until next time,
Friday, June 26, 2009
I was just realizing today how much I love my husband, I know, eight months of marriage and your just figuring that out!? I always know how much I love him but at certain times it becomes new and fresh again.
I guess what made me start thinking about it was the fact that I watched the devasting episode of Jon and Kate plus eight were they announced to the world their plans to get divoriced...I have watched their show for the last couple months and while I see why they are going through with a divorice it still makse me sad to think that a couple could come to that, especially with the kids they have! I can't imagine Derek and I getting to that piont in our lifes and deciding to just quit...to give up on each other really....It really made me stop and think about our relationship and how we have in the short amount of time we have been together created a trust and love for one another that can only grow with the years ahead. I get frustrated with Derek, as all wives do with their husbands, but he always make me get weak in the knees when he looks at me with those big brown eyes and I forget why I was even mad! Which sometimes makes me more frustrated with him, I just want to stay mad and win an arguement, but it rarely happens! I guess I don't mind losing fights as long as I get to lay in bed with him and talk until we can barely keep our eyes open, kissing each other goodnight and just laying there in perfect quiet knowing that he is there....*sigh* I love being married!
Now I'm really sad...Derek is going to a golf tournament thing on Michigan tomorrow, he is going with his dad and his brother, they have done it the last couple years so I know what to expect....he gets up really early, gone all afternoon, back by like 6....and I was ok with that, a little bummed just because Saturdays are usually me and Dereks day to hang out and spend time together, but I know that he enjoys the golf and time with the guys. But then he tells me this morning that they are thinking of leaving tonight and spending the night so they don't have to leave so early in the morning tomorrow....:( It would be so weird to sleep in our house with out Derek, I haven't done that yet...I'm a strong woman, I keep telling myself....but I need Derek, I would definitely miss him!
I might be blogging tonight just to fill the emptiness of my house (gosh am I dramatic)
Until next time,
I guess what made me start thinking about it was the fact that I watched the devasting episode of Jon and Kate plus eight were they announced to the world their plans to get divoriced...I have watched their show for the last couple months and while I see why they are going through with a divorice it still makse me sad to think that a couple could come to that, especially with the kids they have! I can't imagine Derek and I getting to that piont in our lifes and deciding to just quit...to give up on each other really....It really made me stop and think about our relationship and how we have in the short amount of time we have been together created a trust and love for one another that can only grow with the years ahead. I get frustrated with Derek, as all wives do with their husbands, but he always make me get weak in the knees when he looks at me with those big brown eyes and I forget why I was even mad! Which sometimes makes me more frustrated with him, I just want to stay mad and win an arguement, but it rarely happens! I guess I don't mind losing fights as long as I get to lay in bed with him and talk until we can barely keep our eyes open, kissing each other goodnight and just laying there in perfect quiet knowing that he is there....*sigh* I love being married!
Now I'm really sad...Derek is going to a golf tournament thing on Michigan tomorrow, he is going with his dad and his brother, they have done it the last couple years so I know what to expect....he gets up really early, gone all afternoon, back by like 6....and I was ok with that, a little bummed just because Saturdays are usually me and Dereks day to hang out and spend time together, but I know that he enjoys the golf and time with the guys. But then he tells me this morning that they are thinking of leaving tonight and spending the night so they don't have to leave so early in the morning tomorrow....:( It would be so weird to sleep in our house with out Derek, I haven't done that yet...I'm a strong woman, I keep telling myself....but I need Derek, I would definitely miss him!
I might be blogging tonight just to fill the emptiness of my house (gosh am I dramatic)
Until next time,
The Love Birds
Monday, June 22, 2009
Shopping, Ninety degree weather, and dying plants
Going on shopping trip tomorrow and I'm mildly excited....ok so I'm REALLY EXCITED!!!!! :)
I haven't been on a girls only shopping trip for a while and so me and my sister, Lane, are going to go up tomorrow and spend morning/afternoon shopping until we have no money left and our arms can't hold the bags...which I guess will be early on in the trip since I don't have that much money and neither one of us is very strong. :)
Derek is playing a new game he got the other night called Call of Duty....yep another war game. We haven't done much this evening, Derek picked me up and we came home and I started the oven and then crashed on the couch...I really didn't want to move but figured I should make my husband supper..he likes it when I do that for him. We didn't have anything grand, just Cheeseburgers and fries, but that generally is our favorite kind of meal...simple but delicious. :)
I definitely had to water my flowers I have around of house, so I bravely faced the ninety degree weather and left the igloo that is our house...I think I set a record for watering plants, I wasn't stopping to smell the roses...that is for 72 degree slight breeze days! But the watering needed down, I was afraid I had killed my flowers for awhile there but I'm pretty sure they are still alive, I'm at least going to keep watering them until I know for sure...I know, crazy woman watering dead plants!! I'm holding on to the possibility of me inheriting my dad's green thumb.
Until next time,
I haven't been on a girls only shopping trip for a while and so me and my sister, Lane, are going to go up tomorrow and spend morning/afternoon shopping until we have no money left and our arms can't hold the bags...which I guess will be early on in the trip since I don't have that much money and neither one of us is very strong. :)
Derek is playing a new game he got the other night called Call of Duty....yep another war game. We haven't done much this evening, Derek picked me up and we came home and I started the oven and then crashed on the couch...I really didn't want to move but figured I should make my husband supper..he likes it when I do that for him. We didn't have anything grand, just Cheeseburgers and fries, but that generally is our favorite kind of meal...simple but delicious. :)
I definitely had to water my flowers I have around of house, so I bravely faced the ninety degree weather and left the igloo that is our house...I think I set a record for watering plants, I wasn't stopping to smell the roses...that is for 72 degree slight breeze days! But the watering needed down, I was afraid I had killed my flowers for awhile there but I'm pretty sure they are still alive, I'm at least going to keep watering them until I know for sure...I know, crazy woman watering dead plants!! I'm holding on to the possibility of me inheriting my dad's green thumb.
Until next time,
The Love Birds
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Garage Sales
I'm a big fan of garage sales!! Love them, love them, love them! I love the treasure hunt that garage sales offer, the waking up early to go out and find that one thing that you can go home with and say you only spent 50 cents on it!
This morning I went with Laurissa Dalrymple, our pastor's wife, We havent' done much together and nothing says bonding like a shopping trip!! :)
It was hard to get up this morning, as much I wanted to go I really wish I could have slept in, We celebrated an early Father's day with my in-laws and didn't get home until midnight and didn't go to bed until one!!!! I was so tired, I now have this headache from not sleeping and running around town all day until about 2 today....
Derek is out hitting some golf balls with his dad, they like to golf together, sorta their bonding experience! So I'm home by myself right now....Which to be honest is sometimes nice, I get alot done when derek is gone, he is definitely a distraction when here! I cleaned, and made fruit dip for tonight, and now catching up on some One Tree hill (my new favorite show)
We are going to the Dalrymples house tonight to hang out with them and the Zolls, Every year the homeschool group in Bluffton does a fundraiser and sells Nelson Port-a-pit chicken, which is my favorite!! Well Tenley Zoll is playing and so we bought some of her tickets, and Angel (her mom) suggested we all get together to eat all the chicken we bought, have a little cookout and spend some time together as couples! :) Which is also why I made fruit dip, I was responibly for bringing fruit for every one tonight! Watermelon is a really good summer cookout must have...in my opinion!
Until next time,
This morning I went with Laurissa Dalrymple, our pastor's wife, We havent' done much together and nothing says bonding like a shopping trip!! :)
It was hard to get up this morning, as much I wanted to go I really wish I could have slept in, We celebrated an early Father's day with my in-laws and didn't get home until midnight and didn't go to bed until one!!!! I was so tired, I now have this headache from not sleeping and running around town all day until about 2 today....
Derek is out hitting some golf balls with his dad, they like to golf together, sorta their bonding experience! So I'm home by myself right now....Which to be honest is sometimes nice, I get alot done when derek is gone, he is definitely a distraction when here! I cleaned, and made fruit dip for tonight, and now catching up on some One Tree hill (my new favorite show)
We are going to the Dalrymples house tonight to hang out with them and the Zolls, Every year the homeschool group in Bluffton does a fundraiser and sells Nelson Port-a-pit chicken, which is my favorite!! Well Tenley Zoll is playing and so we bought some of her tickets, and Angel (her mom) suggested we all get together to eat all the chicken we bought, have a little cookout and spend some time together as couples! :) Which is also why I made fruit dip, I was responibly for bringing fruit for every one tonight! Watermelon is a really good summer cookout must have...in my opinion!
Until next time,
The Love Birds
Friday, June 19, 2009
It's funny how the last couple of post I have written have been from work, this shouldn't shock me since I'm here all the time (yes I'm at the library right now working and writing this) When I get home I usually don't have the energy left to be witty or informative enough write a blog post, it's been nice to work by a laptop on the mornings I work, that way I can update you all on our everyday lives...which isn't that interesting but I tend to think its important! :)
I was always one of those people who would decide to start a journal and get all excited, going out and buying some leatherbound book and documenting the first day of writing as something that would one day be infamous, writing that I will record my thoughts and feelings every day, dull or not, and the plan goes as I thought for about three days and then my creative juices start to sour and I decide that I don't really want to write about sitting at home, making supper, watching a movie and going to bed, I live it every day why would I want to write about it....well thats how I feel about blogging, especially since its not just me that is reading it and can be bored, I want to write something that people want to read, thats witty and smart and funny...
I've started to realize though that there is so much more that goes on in my days than what I think to write, I feel the purpose of writing is so that one day you can go back and read it to remember that time in your life, to learn from it and to enjoy the memories...So when I look at a day that I have just finished and I think about writing it down, my bad habits have taught me to just write what I need to...went here, say this, came home. But what I need to do and what I hopefully will start to do is see the little things that made the day so enjoyable to me and share those thoughts...and those things are not, "derek and I sat on the couch and watch a movie" it's "Derek and I were laying on the couch, his arms around my shoulder, me laying on his chest, I feel so protected and loved when we sit like this, him almost guarding me and me trusting him to do so, of course then he decides to tickle me the gooey feelings are gone and full on tickle revenge is on...which is silly of me because derek is the best at getting my guard down and making me laugh hysterically, without even touching me!"
That's what I want to remember....how I felt, what Derek does to make me laugh and be loved, I don't care what movie we watched or what we had for supper, but the conversation we had while eating, or the jokes we shared while watching the movie! :)
This is my new goal....see the little things, don't be afraid to share them, to write them down so that I can remember them! And now that I have written all that I at least will feel guilt tripped if nothing else to do exactly that!!
Until next time,
I was always one of those people who would decide to start a journal and get all excited, going out and buying some leatherbound book and documenting the first day of writing as something that would one day be infamous, writing that I will record my thoughts and feelings every day, dull or not, and the plan goes as I thought for about three days and then my creative juices start to sour and I decide that I don't really want to write about sitting at home, making supper, watching a movie and going to bed, I live it every day why would I want to write about it....well thats how I feel about blogging, especially since its not just me that is reading it and can be bored, I want to write something that people want to read, thats witty and smart and funny...
I've started to realize though that there is so much more that goes on in my days than what I think to write, I feel the purpose of writing is so that one day you can go back and read it to remember that time in your life, to learn from it and to enjoy the memories...So when I look at a day that I have just finished and I think about writing it down, my bad habits have taught me to just write what I need to...went here, say this, came home. But what I need to do and what I hopefully will start to do is see the little things that made the day so enjoyable to me and share those thoughts...and those things are not, "derek and I sat on the couch and watch a movie" it's "Derek and I were laying on the couch, his arms around my shoulder, me laying on his chest, I feel so protected and loved when we sit like this, him almost guarding me and me trusting him to do so, of course then he decides to tickle me the gooey feelings are gone and full on tickle revenge is on...which is silly of me because derek is the best at getting my guard down and making me laugh hysterically, without even touching me!"
That's what I want to remember....how I felt, what Derek does to make me laugh and be loved, I don't care what movie we watched or what we had for supper, but the conversation we had while eating, or the jokes we shared while watching the movie! :)
This is my new goal....see the little things, don't be afraid to share them, to write them down so that I can remember them! And now that I have written all that I at least will feel guilt tripped if nothing else to do exactly that!!
Until next time,
The Love Birds
Monday, June 15, 2009
New Developments
Just when you think you got everything under control and life is easy to figure out something comes along to burst that bubble of comfort and sprays you with sticky busted bubble....
Derek was halfway laid off last weekend...halfway because he will be on a "on a week, off a week" schedule! Which I guess is a blessing, He still has a job but they just don't need him every week...and Derek wasn't the only one, I'm pretty sure almost everyone in the company got put on this schedule! I personally am sorta excited about having Derek home when I am...We will get to spend some extra quality time together. He is really looking for projects to do to keep himself busy, which is good, because I have a feeling he would start getting really ansy if he didn't get something done in a day! :) All in all this will be a good thing...at least thats the approach we are taking!
Until next time,
Derek was halfway laid off last weekend...halfway because he will be on a "on a week, off a week" schedule! Which I guess is a blessing, He still has a job but they just don't need him every week...and Derek wasn't the only one, I'm pretty sure almost everyone in the company got put on this schedule! I personally am sorta excited about having Derek home when I am...We will get to spend some extra quality time together. He is really looking for projects to do to keep himself busy, which is good, because I have a feeling he would start getting really ansy if he didn't get something done in a day! :) All in all this will be a good thing...at least thats the approach we are taking!
Until next time,
The Love Birds
Friday, June 12, 2009
Ailments of a Dramatic Wife
I was infected with the dreaded cold this week! And of course me being the non-dramatic no fuss person I am the week was really not that dreadful.....NOT!!!!!!! :)
Sorry to burst anyones bubble of how I am but non-dramatic is definitely not me! I recall telling derek multiply times that "I'm dying....go ahead of play video game, I'm just dying....Sure I can cook, I'm only dying!" What can I say other than, I HATE BEING SICK! It's the worst, I hate the in between of feeling like your old self and deciding to get stuff done but then its like your body punishes you for doing anything because before you know what happens your back on the couch feeling like a ton a bricks hit you and wanting to just sleep!
I'm glad to finally see the light at the end of the tunnel....After laying on the couch all day Tuesday, infecting everyone and going through a whole box of tissues on Wednesday, and resting again on Thursday, now that Friday is finally here I am starting to feel so much better...It only hurts to cough now and when I talk (which is a lot) I sound like I have smoked since I was ten! :) Beside that I feel like I can take on the weekend with a renewed body!
Derek doesn't have to run tomorrow (they are running Sunday night) so we get to sleep in tomorrow....which means we can stay up late tonight watching movies and be a young crazy married couple! :) that doesn't happen to often.....riiiigggghhhhtt ;)
Until next time,
Sorry to burst anyones bubble of how I am but non-dramatic is definitely not me! I recall telling derek multiply times that "I'm dying....go ahead of play video game, I'm just dying....Sure I can cook, I'm only dying!" What can I say other than, I HATE BEING SICK! It's the worst, I hate the in between of feeling like your old self and deciding to get stuff done but then its like your body punishes you for doing anything because before you know what happens your back on the couch feeling like a ton a bricks hit you and wanting to just sleep!
I'm glad to finally see the light at the end of the tunnel....After laying on the couch all day Tuesday, infecting everyone and going through a whole box of tissues on Wednesday, and resting again on Thursday, now that Friday is finally here I am starting to feel so much better...It only hurts to cough now and when I talk (which is a lot) I sound like I have smoked since I was ten! :) Beside that I feel like I can take on the weekend with a renewed body!
Derek doesn't have to run tomorrow (they are running Sunday night) so we get to sleep in tomorrow....which means we can stay up late tonight watching movies and be a young crazy married couple! :) that doesn't happen to often.....riiiigggghhhhtt ;)
Until next time,
The Love Birds
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